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We Paid Mom’s Senior Caregiver Off the Books – a Case Study


We Paid Mom’s Senior Caregiver Off the Books – a Case Study

We Paid Mom’s Senior Caregiver Off the Books – a Case Study

Mike and Joyce R. hired a caregiver to help Mike’s mom at home when she came to live with them after her husband passed away. They agreed with the caregiver at the time that they were going to pay her $500 a week off the books. She worked out wonderfully and she stayed with Mike’s mom for almost three years, and was let go with a generous severance when Mike’s mom had to enter a nursing home. We Paid Mom’s Senior Caregiver Off the Books – a Case Study

Their former caregiver, sadly, could not find another position right away and in desperation filed for unemployment benefits to tide her over. Mike and Joyce received a letter from their state’s Department of Labor indicating that the former caregiver had filed for unemployment benefits, naming Mike and Joyce as her former employers. In a panic, they called HomeWork Solutions for help getting this sorted out.



Mike and Joyce, like so many household employers, had heard that the ‘nanny taxes’ were very confusing. As busy professionals, they very much wanted to keep things simple. The caregiver was agreeable to being paid off the books, as she too benefited (in her mind) by taking home a bigger paycheck every week. No one likes paying taxes, and so long as everyone was agreeable it seemed like the simple solution.

When Mike and Joyce contacted HWS and spoke to Mary Crowe, they were understandably anxious as well as upset at Mom’s former caregiver. They needed to know what their options were and how to get out of this mess.

“My wife and I had no idea what a mess we were creating when we agreed to pay mom’s helper off the books. It has turned out to be the most expensive financial mistake we have made in our marriage. We are so grateful for Mary’s calm and compassion – she helped us focus on solving the problem and couldn’t have been more helpful.”


Unfortunately, their former caregiver was the family’s employee under law, and Mike and Joyce were legally responsible for employment taxes. Mary explained that these employment taxes totaled about 18% of the employee’s payroll – or $12,000 over the two and a half years she worked for them.  She further explained that if they had treated the caregiver’s payroll legally from the very beginning, they would have collected $5000 of this from the caregiver via paycheck deductions. However, at this late date the obligation to pay the entire amount was completely on the family.

Because the household employment taxes are collected as part of their personal income tax return, they realized that they were going to have to amend three years of tax filings. Additionally, the former caregiver would be receiving W-2 forms for the years in question and she was going to have to file and pay her federal and state income taxes.


Mike enrolled in HWS’ household tax preparation services and HWS quickly got the paperwork sorted out. Mike worked over the phone with HWS’ Mary Crowe to recreate the former helper’s pay history and HWS had prepared back tax returns in his hands the following week.

Mike immediately paid the overdue state unemployment taxes and put part of this unpleasant chapter of his life to bed. Mary educated Mike about what to expect going forward – including how the state would communicate penalties and interest. Mike understood that he needed to contact his personal accountant with the federal forms that HWS had prepared and file amended tax returns, pay the tax, and to expect penalties on those too.


Several weeks later, Mike contacted Mary again to give an update. His accountant had been able to quickly amend his federal tax returns and helped Mike and Joyce get on a payment plan with the IRS. Mike reported that he and Joyce had learned a painful and expensive lesson.

Mike was very thankful for all the hand-holding Mary had done and expressed relief that this was all behind them now. Mike advised that after hearing their story, his sister-in-law had contacted HWS the week before and put her family’s housekeeper on the books too.

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